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The Ipswich
Journal of 31 October 1789 carried the following notice:
Oct 29 SAMUEL
Balls sold his wife to ABRAHAM RADE in the parish of Blythburgh
in this county for 1s. A halter was put round her, and she was resigned
up to this Abraham Rade. No person or persons to intrust her with
my name, Samuel Balls, for she is no longer my right.
Witnesses,
M. Bullock, constable,
Rob. Sherington,
Samuel Balls,
George Wincop.
Sir John Cullum,
of Hardwick House near Bury St Edmunds, saw this report, stuck it
in a scrapbook, and wrote alongside: "In this enlightened age,
one would hardly think of seeing such an advertisement as the above
... ". We also know from a contemporary directory that George
Wincop (sic) was Blythburgh's village blacksmith (his grave is in
the churchyard), and Robert Sherington kept the White Hart.
The Blythburgh
event was not unusual. Some 400 documented cases are known, from
the seventeenth to the early twentieth century, and there could
have been many more, especially in the less censorious eighteenth
century when they may not have been noticed. The best-known example
is fictional, in Thomas Hardy's Mayor of Casterbridge. But the casual
brutality of this encounter, the fortuitous arrival of the purchaser,
who bid on impulse, and the lack of ritual features, make this a
misleading stereotype.
The ritual was
important: location in a public place, often a market; a formal
announcement or advertisement; the use of a halter; the presence
of an "auctioneer"; the transfer of money, and sometimes
the exchange of pledges. The symbolism was derived from the market
sale of goods and chattels, with which the participants were familiar,
and intended to make 'lawful' what was essentially a form of divorce
and remarriage.
While the sales
took place in a society in which women occupied an inferior position,
it may be wrong to assume that they were being represented as chattels.
The need to observe a "lawful" procedure was the real
significance of the ritual. In fact, the women may rarely have been
victims. They knew their value and their rights in their society,
and their consent was generally a necessary condition of sale.
Footnote: a Samuel Balls, a single man of Holton, married Mary Bedingfield
of Blythburgh by license on 6 August 1782, in the presence of Samuel
Thrower and William Blowers. Was this the same Samuel and do we
have here an eighteenth-century example of the seven-year itch?
Suggested further
reading:
E. P. Thompson,
Customs in Common (1991)
S.P. Menefee, Wives for Sale (1981)
Alan
Mackley, Blythburgh, April 1994, rev. November 1995.
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